Rekindle

When Therapy Takes Too Long, This Works Now

Rekindle.Love is here to help you shift the patterns that make love feel hard & create a connection that feels like home.

Whether you’re on the edge of a breakup, in the thick of separation, or quietly disappearing just to keep the peace you deserve support that gets to the root of it, not just another surface-level fix.

What's Blocking Your

Connection Quiz

Find out what’s really getting in the way of the closeness you crave & how to shift it.

Something in your relationship isn’t working...

You can feel it, whether it’s the same exhausting arguments, the slow drift of disconnection, or the growing weight of holding everything together alone.

Maybe you’re trying to save something that still matters.

Maybe you’re trying to find your way forward after it’s already fallen apart.

And maybe, without even realizing it, you’ve been abandoning parts of yourself just to hold the relationship together & now, it’s time to come back to you.

​This is where you learn how to create the kind of relationship that finally feels good to live inside.

What’s Waiting For You Inside the Rekindle Community

Conflict Resolution Clinics
Practical guidance to move from gridlock to connection.

Live Q&A Sessions
Get your most pressing relationship questions answered in real-time.

Experiential Exercises
Unique & powerful practices designed to create real shifts in your relationship and in your life

Classes & Workshops
Learn from research-backed teachings on love, boundaries, attachment & how your family imprint shapes your relationships.

Support Through the Rekindle App
Your relationship struggles don’t wait for office hours. Our app helps you process challenges in the moment.

And you don’t have to wait to get started.

Join today and dive into your first course instantly, so you can begin making real shifts right now.


Concerned with privacy?

You are welcome to use your first name and not include your picture in your bio.

No personal data shared, just secure, guidance tailored to your relationship.

Think of it as a private relationship therapist in your pocket, completely on your terms.

Whether you join alone or with your partner, Rekindle is your space to do things differently. Not someday. Now.

No one taught us how to handle the messy, beautiful complexities of love

​Research makes it clear that the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.

When we invest time & energy in learning to love & be loved, we create the foundation for everything , resilience, deeper connections, releasing old hurts & living in a loving relationship.

What Clients Are Saying

"It's surprising to me that I've been in therapy for over 10 years -- and I've never heard the understanding about pleasing people or insights about my relationship in this way. I'm really loving being a part of this community."

  - Ada

“I’m getting so much from being a part of the Rekindle Community. The information I’m learning about myself is life changing and I am forever grateful for being a part of this wonderful group. This is just what I need to shift the dynamics in my relationship.“

  - Tracey

“I’ve done years of therapy, but nothing has helped me shift my relationship patterns like this community has. My relationship with Paul is completely transformed. Where there was power struggle, there is now teamwork & cooperation; where there was blame & resentment, there is now respect."

  - Sylvie

Meet Johanna

In every relationship love can feel tangled, distant, or weighed down by things we don't say.

I’m Johanna & for 20 years I’ve been listening to what hearts (& histories) have to say within the landscape of long term relationships.

Rekindle offers a space to gain clarity & untangle painful patterns that keep love stuck. Sometimes, repairing love means rewriting the story we’ve been living.

Why Do the Same Conflicts Keep Showing Up?


Because most of what’s driving your reactions isn’t about this moment, it’s about what was wired into you long before it.

You learned how to love, how to disconnect, how to protect yourself, before you even knew what love really meant. Certainly before this familiar dynamic played out again with your partner today.

And those patterns?  They were modeled, absorbed, inherited.

You didn’t choose the pattern, and the truth is, you can intentionally choose something different now.

The Rekindle Newsletter

Tips for how to Break the Cycle & Rekindle Your Connection